
In short: Fillers are the sounds and words that cover a gap while you think: um, ah, like, so. Replace them with a pause rather than forcing silence. Record a short talk, mark each filler, and note the sentence it sits in. Fillers cluster at the joins between points, so write the first line of each section and rehearse those joins.
Everyone uses fillers. The question is whether they cover real thinking or nervous noise. Too many of them make a speaker sound unsure, even when the content is solid. Here is how to find yours and deal with them.
Why fillers appear
Three causes account for most of them. You are working out the next sentence while speaking it. You are unsure what the next point is. Or you are nervous, and the mouth keeps moving while the mind looks for a foothold. The first two are planning problems. The third needs calming down, and planning helps with that too.
Find your fillers
Record yourself giving part of the talk. Present Yourself guidance is to record every presentation, even on audio only, and to watch for tics. Listen back and make a tally on paper each time you hear one. Note the sentence it sat in. The count is often higher than people expect, and the clusters are more useful than the total.
Replace, do not delete
When you cut a filler, you do not want a silence that feels like a hole. You want a pause that feels deliberate. Stop after the point, breathe, then start the next sentence with its first word. The room hears a pause. You hear a long gap, and that difference is the whole trick.
Practise the joins
Fillers gather at the joins: after one point ends, before a new one starts, after a question, and at the top of an answer. Write the opening line of each section on a card. When you know the first sentence, the gap before it shrinks.
Steps
- Record a three-minute run-through of the talk.
- Tally each filler and note the sentence it sits in.
- Rewrite the first line of each section so it begins with the point itself.
- Rehearse the joins, pausing silently between sections, then say the first line.
- Record again and compare the tally.
A worked example
Before: "So, um, the next thing I want to, like, talk about is the lighting."
After: "The next thing is lighting. [pause] Here is why it matters for your shoot."
The second version is shorter, the point comes first, and the pause does the job the filler was doing.
Common mistakes
- Swapping one filler for another. "Right", "okay" and "basically" are fillers too.
- Cutting so hard that you sound robotic. Some natural hesitation makes you sound like a person.
- Trying to stop mid-flow. Fix the plan, not the sentence you are speaking.
- Checking the tally during the talk. Count afterwards, when you can do something about it.
For the bigger picture on delivery, read the power of the pause and vocal variety: the rollercoaster. If you want to hear the difference live, a media training day is built around practice interviews.
Related guides
- Pace: why you are still too fast when you speak
- The power of the pause in speaking and presenting
- Vocal variety: the rollercoaster
- Projecting 10% more without shouting
- Smiling voice
- All guides and tools
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Questions we get asked
How do I stop saying um when I present?
Replace each filler with a short silent pause, and make sure you know the first line of every section before you start it. Most fillers come from not knowing the next sentence yet.
Is it bad to pause when speaking in public?
No. A pause feels much longer to you than it does to the room, and audiences usually read it as thought. Pauses after the main points give people time to take them in.
How can I find my own filler words?
Record yourself, even on audio only, and listen back with a pen. Mark every um, ah, like and so, and note which sentence each one sits in. The pattern shows you where to rehearse.
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