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How not to look nervous: habits to drop

Most nervous habits are small, repeated movements the presenter never notices. Drop them one at a time.

In short: Pacing, swaying, fidgeting and looking at the floor are the habits that make a presenter look nervous, even when the content is strong. Decide where you will stand and move only with a reason. Use a pause in place of filler words. Give your hands a job, and look at one person at a time or down the lens on camera. Review a short recording to spot the habit you repeat most.

Nervous habits are rarely dramatic. They are small, repeated movements: a shift from one foot to the other, a hand going to the hair, a step to the left and back again. The presenter barely feels them. The audience sees them clearly, and a habit repeated through a talk becomes the thing people remember.

The habits that give nerves away

The common ones are set out below, with what to do instead.

HabitWhat it looks likeWhat to do instead
PacingWalking side to side, or back and forth, between pointsChoose your spot before you start and move only when you change point
Swaying or rockingWeight moving from heel to heelStand with feet a comfortable width apart and your weight even
FidgetingHands in pockets, playing with a pen or clicker, touching hair or faceGive your hands a gesture, or let them rest at your sides
Looking awayEyes on the screen, the floor or the ceilingLook at one person for a sentence, then move on
RushingSentences running into each otherPause at the end of each point

Move with a reason

Move with purpose, then stop. A move to a new spot marks a new point, and stillness afterwards lets the audience take the point in. If you cannot say why you are moving, do not move. Before you start, rehearse the layout and the lighting so you know where your marks are and can stand there without thinking about it.

Use the pause

Silence feels long to the speaker and short to the room. A pause before the next point looks like confidence, and it gives you a breath. When you feel the urge to say "so" or "um", stop and breathe instead.

Give your hands a job

Hands that do nothing look like they are waiting to be used. Hands that gesture without purpose look busy. Use them to show size, direction or a count, and let them drop to your sides between points. On camera, keep gestures inside the frame so they can be seen.

A worked example

A director records a two-minute welcome message for staff. The first take shows a rocking stance, one hand in a pocket and eyes on the monitor. Playback makes the problem obvious. For the second take, the director marks two spots on the floor with tape, pauses after each of three points and looks down the lens. The words are the same. The second take looks steadier because there are fewer movements to manage.

Common mistakes

  • Trying to drop every habit in one rehearsal. Pick the one that shows up most on playback.
  • Freezing completely, which looks stiff. Gestures and moves are fine when they have a point.
  • Watching a recording for the content when you mean to check the body. Watch once with the sound off.

Relaxing before you start matters as much as what you do on the day. The three-minute breathing routine and turning nerves into excitement cover that side. If you want to see your own habits on playback, a media training day at the barn includes recorded practice with the footage kept.

Want to practise it on camera? A media training day at the barn puts you in front of real cameras, with playback and coaching. Media training day →

Related guides

The picture at the top of this page is an illustration, not a photograph of a client or a real job.

Questions we get asked

What makes someone look nervous when presenting?

Repeated small movements such as pacing, swaying, touching the face or hair, and looking at the screen or the floor. They read as anxiety even when the content is strong.

How do I stop fidgeting when I present?

Plan where your hands go and where you stand, and decide in advance what each gesture is for. Record a short run, watch for the one habit you repeat, and work on that alone.

Is it fine to move on stage?

Yes, if the movement has a purpose. Move when you reach a new point or a new part of the audience, then stop. Being still for a moment after a move looks deliberate.

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